Thursday, July 15, 2004
P.S. a story bout ma fren..
*为何付出了那么多..换来的却是你的冷漠..*
she was wit her sweetheart fer 1 year..it was a veri lon9 year..with all kinda memories..sad; happi; disappointed; sweet etc...
but without doubt, she put in lots of effort in it..jus to make him love her more & most imptly..to maintain the relationship..
but when it comes to relationship matters..要的是两个人的付出吧..
1 year le..she's tired of bein9 the onli one puttin9 in effort..he treats her well..but onli when he sense somethin9 wron9..
both of them had lots of problems which test their relationship..
can they pass it with flyin9 colours depends on both of their effort ba..
when two persons get into a relationship..they are one..whatever they do..they need one another..witout anione of them..it will nv be completed..
she wanted to end the relationship..but everyone advise her not to..jus cux of the 1 year relationship..it has been sho lon9..她可以忍受了一年..为何现在不能了呢?
but..她很痛苦..rrly..she cried fer him..she is tired of everthin9..she could not stand it ani lon9er..
bein9 her frenx..we decided to ask her to 9ive up..
when we are in a relationship...wad's impt is tat she is happi..
be it u are the 9uy or ma fren..wad will u do..? 9ive up?..continue..?
when it comes to relationship..noone is at fault..we nv noi the true side unless we are the one involved..
i am not here to encoura9e ma fren to end the relationship..but the most impt thin9 is..plz be happi..
whatever decision u made..juz make sure tat u don feel re9ret..
& b4 u made ani decision..think of him..he loves u alot..thou9h u had put in effort..but at least u are repaid by his tender & care..
u may be sufferin9..but he may aso be the one sufferin9..mayb more than u..
~当你有了勇气恋爱时..你也一定要准备好牺牲的勇气..~
~要得到一个完美的爱情..你就得牺牲嘛..~
*love is all bout how much u 9ave..not bout how much u 9et back in return..*
P.S. u may not a9ree with this sentence..but without 9ivin9, how do u 9et back what u had lost?